This is a very tough announcement for me to make, but my MIL passed away yesterday. Unfortunately, my amazing husband found her dead on the floor in her apartment. She has been sick for a very long time, and he was doing everything he could to convince her to move to an assisted living place/nursing home. She said she wouldn’t do it, and we think that it’s because she knew it was her time. I firmly believe the following quote:
My MIL LOVED my husband with all of her heart. He was her only child. And, she raised an AMAZING son and husband. I’ve watched for years as he has loved, honored, and taken care of her. And, I’m blown away by how he does the same for me every single minute of the day. She left him the sweetest note about how he was her joy and how he is the reason why she fought so long and so hard. This note has given us SO much hope. I’m eternally grateful to her for leaving it and every single detail about her wishes and insurance.
Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.
Thanks SO much for being here.
Oh Rynetta, I am very sorry. She sounds like she was an amazing lady. I will be thinking of you and your dear husband. Xoxo
How lucky your husband is to have such an amazing mother. So sorry for your families loss. Best wishes for you in this time.
Jordan Skiles says
You have been on my mind and my heart constantly, Rynetta. I'll continue to pray for comfort for you, your husband, and your entire family. xo
Oh, Rynetta–my heart breaks for you and your husband. Losing a loved one is so hard. I hope that you both can find peace that she is now with the Lord! You should be so thankful to have each other to get through this and thankful for the good memories and lasting legacies that your MIL left. Praying for you. Lots of love.
I'm so sorry, Rynetta. Sounds like an amazing lady raised an amazing son! You and your husband are in my thoughts.
Louise @ INGREDIENTS says
Hi Rynetta, I'm so sorry. She sounds like a wonderful woman. Strength and best wishes to you and your husband.
Dina Gideon says
Oh, hon, so sorry. Your blog post is a beautiful memorial to her. Prayers for you all will be sent from VA.
I'm sorry Rynetta. Love and prayers to you and your husband, and may your mother-in-law rest in peace.
Blue Booby says
Oh honey, I am so sorry for your and your husband's loss. We do know your MIL is singing with the angels but it is so tough to be left here on earth. My prayer is that the grieving will be replaced with the loving memories and joy of her godly life over time.Psalm 30:5 – Weeping may remain for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.May God bless you and you beloved.
Rynetta, I am so sorry! This post is overflowing with the love you and your husband feel for her, and it makes me smile. Sending love to you and your husband in this sad time.
Sincere condolences to you and your husband, rynetta! May she rest in peace!
ina mack says
Rynetta,i am so sorry for your loss!I am giving you a big hug and your are blessed with your husband. Your MIL was a very spaecial lady and i am sure she is at a better place now.
Laura Isaacs says
Thinking of you and your family rynetta and hope you find comfort in memories.
I had given up posting and commenting but you have brought me out of hiding Rynetta. As someone who in all likelihood stands a pretty good chance becoming a Mother in law I can say: You see the bigger picture, you see this woman nurtured your husband into the person you want to be with and you display a deep respect of his love for her and her's for him. I am sure she rests in peace knowing her son is with a person who has such a big heart.
Carolines Day says
So sorry to hear this, Rynetta. How terribly heartbroken you and your wonderful husband must be. Please take comfort in knowing that she is whole, healthy, and smiling down at you, and my thoughts are with you both!
Anthro Blogger says
Rynetta, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for strength and resilience for you and your amazing husband during this difficult time. Thos post is a testament to your and your MIL's kindness and I hope that rather than a departure, you can feel she is with you always. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm sorry for your loss Rynetta…praying for you and your husband
I'm so sorry, Rynetta. Sending prayers for you and your family.
Hi,Sending condolences and prayers to you and your husband. My husband lost both his parents within a week of each other this past fall. It has been really rough on him as he was very close with them. Let your husband lean on you for support, he will need you now.God bless!
phiphis blog says
I am so so sorry Rynetta. My condolences to you and your husband. it is wonderful she left him a note but i know he is aware of the love she had for him. it is so obvious she raised a wonderful man. may he find comfort in this difficult time with the undying love you have for him. xo
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mother-in-law sounds like a wonderful woman and mother. Though she is not physically with you, all the love she poured into her son and you will live on.
Rynetta, deepest sympathy to you and your husband. Your Hubby is a wonderful man, husband and son. His mom is very proud of him for sure! May she rest in peace. My prayers are for all of you.
A Sister Thing says
Rynetta, Thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
M @ Apples and Pencil Skirts says
I am very sorry for your family's loss. She sounds like a wonderful woman who will be deeply missed. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, Rynetta.
Lisa - respect the shoes says
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.
Rynetta, I am so sorry for your loss, sending you and your husband my deepest condolences. She sounds like an amazing woman who lived a wonderful life full of love, and she will live on through you both. My prayers are with you.
Linda C. says
My condolences to you and your family. It sounds like your MIL was an amazing woman who raised a great man. I wil pray that God gives you and your husband strength in this difficult time
Buffy Alten says
Rynetta, I am so sorry for your loss, and your husband's loss as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Buffy Alten says
I am so sorry for both you and your husband's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
What a great thing to do for her son, writing that note. She must have been a very special person. I am so sorry for your and your husband's loss.
I am so so sorry, Rynetta. She sounds like she was a very special mom and mother in law.I wish my mother in law felt half that much for my husband, and so you can imagine that I have never been much more than an afterthought since we married. How lucky you were to have her in your life. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers, as I know your hearts are heavy. xo
savvy shopper says
Rynetta, so sorry you lost someone who seemed so special. God bless you and your husband with strength during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fabulous Florida Mommy says
Oh Rynetta, I am so so very sorry for your loss. Your MIL sounds like an amazing woman, and your post is a beautiful memorial to her. I will be praying for you and your husband as you go through this difficult time. God bless you and keep you both.
That is a beautiful tribute to a lovely family. So sorry for your loss. God Bless.
Shopping Celle says
Rynetta, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother in law. My sympathies to you, your husband and her family. She sounds like a special person and she raised a wonderful son. I am lifting you and your family up in prayer.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your husband during this difficult time. Best wishes.
I'm just catching up on my blogs…I'm so sorry to read this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Angie's Closet says
To the both you, I'm sorry for your loss. She sounds like a great lady. Like I always say, how you man treats his mother, is a good indication of how he will treat you. You're very lucky, Miss Rynetta. Sounds like she raised a good man.
A Bigger Closet says
Rynetta, so sorry for both of you on the loss of a dear mother and MIL. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
via Rayna says
Rynetta, my condolences and prayers are with you and your husband. I hope you are able to find peace and comfort in the face of such a loss.
My sympathy on your loss Rynetta. I wish you strength and peace at this difficult time. I will include you and your family in my prayers.
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Oh, Rynetta! I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss! It is such a blessing that your husband and you have each other and your faith to carry you through this time.
My condolences for your family's loss. I lost my father last year unexpectedly, and I am also an only child. I know how difficult it can be to lose a family member in any circumstance, expected or not. My thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time.
I am behind on blogs and just saw your post. I am so sorry to hear of your loss but it is so encouraging to hear about your joy as you remember her and the amazing legacy she has left behind.